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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Sep 2011 09:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So your girlfriend has broken up with you? Do you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back? It&#8217;s actually a lot simpler than you think, in fact, it only requires 3 simple steps. So here they are: 1) Don&#8217;t Bombard Her with Text Messages! Every single guy on the planet has made [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-733" style="border: 7px solid white;" title="How to get your ex girlfriend back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/howtogetyourexgirlfriendback1.jpg" alt="" width="137" height="178" />So your girlfriend has broken up with you? Do you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back? It&#8217;s actually a lot simpler than you think, in fact, it only requires 3 simple steps.</p>
<p>So here they are:</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;">1) Don&#8217;t Bombard Her with Text Messages!</span></p>
<p>Every single guy on the planet has made this mistake at one point or another. The second their girlfriend has left them, they quickly go into panic mode and send out 10&#8242;s, 20&#8242;s or even hundreds of text messages a day to their ex.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">This will only make things worst</span>.</p>
<p>It makes you come off as desperate and stalkerish (two things that girls absolutely hate).</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;">2) Don&#8217;t ask their friends!</span></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1456" title="How to get your ex girlfriend back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/How-to-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back-269x300.jpg" alt="How to get your ex girlfriend back" width="269" height="300" />A lot of guys try and ask their ex&#8217;s friends why the two broke up or try and get your ex&#8217;s friends to convince your ex girlfriend to get back with you &#8211; this is a very bad idea. No girl likes it when a guy goes behind her back.</p>
<p>Trust me, they will always find out &#8211; girls talk to each other all the time.</p>
<p><strong></strong><span style="color: #800000;">3) The Most Important Tip: Accept the break up (for now)<strong><br />
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<p>Everybody wants what they can&#8217;t have: the idea is that you want your ex girlfriend to think that you&#8217;re 100% fine with the break-up. You might even want to take it a bit further than that, you want them to feel as if you&#8217;ve been liberated from their grasp and that you&#8217;re finally free.</p>
<p>Essentially, instead of you coming off as being desperate and needy, you are seen as somebody that would be confident and happy. Your ex will think that she can&#8217;t have you and immediately, will start to quest breaking up with you <img src='http://patchworkpals.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a clever way to start you on the road to get your ex girlfriend back!</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;">What works: Magic of Making Up!</span></p>
<p><strong></strong>Ok&#8230; so obviously you&#8217;re going to need a little bit more than these three tips if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back. The good news is that there is a proven system, in fact, over 50,000 guys and girls have been able to make up and get their ex lover back!</p>
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<p>If you are seriously about getting back with your ex girlfriend, then you must check out their system right now. Don&#8217;t bother reading the rest of this page, just click on the big link directly below:</p>
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<p>These articles will certainly make it easier for you to get your ex back fast! After all, everybody wants their girlfriend to come back and never leave <img src='http://patchworkpals.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Mar 2011 08:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back With 6 Simple Tricks? Not every romantic relationship heads to the altar; in fact, most people go through the trial and error phase with several breakups thrown in for good measure. While sometimes the demise of a relationship is polite and amiable with both parties throwing in the [...]]]></description>
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<p>Not every romantic relationship heads to the altar; in fact, most people go through the trial and error phase with several breakups thrown in for good measure. While sometimes the demise of a relationship is polite and amiable with both parties throwing in the towel, often the end of romantic associations opens the proverbial Pandora’s Box with a gut wrenching feeling of agony accompanying them.</p>
<p>Then, there are times when things seem to end naturally as the sizzle in the relationship fizzles out. However, these breakups usually leave a nagging sense of “what if” in their wake. What if this was meant to be? What if she was the one? What if I could’ve made this work? In order to quell these overwhelming emotions, you need a second go at the association which brings us to the million dollar question, how to win your ex girlfriend back?</p>
<p><strong>The problems encountered when mending a broken relationship</strong></p>
<p>Although there are a million pages written on the topic of “How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back”, in one simple word the process of winning your lady love back is linear albeit counter intuitive. So, more often than not, you will be doing the precise things which increase the depth and width of the gaping chasm between the two of you. So, if her thoughts keep haunting you day and night and you can’t spend a single waking moment without reminiscing about what and how she did things, it’s time to follow the 6 tips given below to get back with your girl.</p>
<p><strong><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1459" title="How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/How-To-Win-Your-Ex-Girlfriend-Back6-200x300.jpg" alt="How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back" width="200" height="300" />Analyze this and that:</strong> This is the quintessential step to mending broken hearts. It would be futile to resurrect a relationship unless you are willing to rationally analyze what went wrong with it. The blame for the breakdown of a romantic association seldom lies with just one partner. While you cannot change the other person, you can definitely change your ways.</p>
<p>Realizing your mistakes and accepting them will help you to formulate a ‘How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back’ strategy. For instance, a lot of relationship gurus recommend adding jealousy to the equation; however, this will prove to be disastrous if fidelity issues caused the relationship to go south.</p>
<p><strong>Give her some space:</strong> Regardless of why and how things ended, it is crucial to not smother your girlfriend with persistent phone calls and messages. This is the most important piece of advice on “How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back”. Resist the urge to dial her number at least for 2 to 4 weeks after the breakup. In case of a chance meeting, avoid all relationship talk and stick with pleasantries.</p>
<p><strong>Get the first call right:</strong> Once things have cooled down emotionally for both of you, it’s time to initiate contact with a single phone call. Simply ask how she is doing, a short 3 or 5 minute call should suffice to get back in touch and gauge her reaction to you. If she is not particularly excited about hearing from you, she either needs more time or is not interested in rekindling things or she may already be seeing someone else.</p>
<p><strong><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1454" title="How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/How-To-Win-Your-Ex-Girlfriend-Back4.jpg" alt="How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back" width="300" height="300" />Begging will get you nowhere:</strong> Begging and groveling will just prove that you are desperate and this will get you nowhere. As a matter of fact, this may be the very behavior that will drive her away. So, firmly control your emotions before talking to your ex.</p>
<p><strong>Get your mind off the relationship:</strong> If things get too heated, take your mind off the relationship. Start going out with friends more often or even getting a new hobby. This will help you to get things in perspective.</p>
<p><strong>If everything is going well, why not take things a step further:</strong> A few phone calls down the line, if she seems to be open to the idea of a personal meeting, it’s time to take things further. Ask her out on a casual date but one with a difference. Don’t go for the regular dinner and movie deal. Instead, try something unique; an approach that will help her to see the change in you and remind her of all the fabulous times that you guy’s spent together. It is crucial to keep things light at this point; attempts at intimacy might prove detrimental.</p>
<p>Finally, when thinking of How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back, remember that all human associations are complicated. However, man and woman relationships are by far the most volatile. After all, you are picking a relative stranger and making him/her the center of your universe. So, you will definitely have to put in extra effort when devising a ‘How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back’ plan.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Mar 2011 02:54:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wanting to know how to get your ex back fast is a natural reaction to being dumped, especially if you did not see it coming. Adjusting to life without the person you love is difficult, which is why you may be unwilling to give up on the relationship just yet. No matter how bleak the [...]]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1451" title="How to Get Your Ex Back Fast" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/How-to-Get-Your-Ex-Back-Fast1.jpg" alt="How to Get Your Ex Back Fast" width="300" height="300" />Wanting to know how to get your ex back fast is a natural reaction to being dumped, especially if you did not see it coming. Adjusting to life without the person you love is difficult, which is why you may be unwilling to give up on the relationship just yet. No matter how bleak the situation, it is possible you can still win back your ex quickly.</p>
<p><strong>Get Close to His Friends</strong></p>
<p>Let’s face it, when something is going on in someone’s private life, the first people to know are the friends. Your ex is likely to have told his friends what has happened between you, as well as the real reasons behind his decision. Talk to his friends, preferably someone you were close too when you were with your ex-boyfriend. This will help you understand more about your ex-boyfriend’s motives, why he did it and most importantly, if there is another woman involved. Depending on how well you know his friends, ask them to put a good word in for you. If you had a good relationship with his mates, there is every chance they will have already questioned his decision. Your ex is likely to value what his mates think, more than any other important person in his life.</p>
<p><strong>Show Him What He is Missing</strong></p>
<p>If you are serious about how to get your ex back fast, you need to act quickly. Arrange a chance meeting; this could be at a mutual friend’s party or a place you definitely know he will be. You need to do more than dress to impress, so make sure you put a little thought in to your outfit. Wear something you know he likes, something he complimented you on when you wore it last. Ideally, choose something that will invoke a happy memory for him, such as the dress you wore when you first met or the shirt he bought you for your birthday. When he sees you he will be reminded of happier times and it is only natural he will link these happier times with you. He may then question, if you had so many happy times together, why he broke up with you.</p>
<p><strong>Don’t Let Him Forget You</strong></p>
<p>Most importantly, <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/">how to get your ex girlfriend back</a> fast involves not giving him the chance to forget you. Newly single people often let the thrill of their newfound freedom go to their head. If you do not want him enjoying the company of other women, you need to make sure you stay fresh in his mind. If you have his cellphone number, call him or send him a text letting him know you are thinking of him. Do not beg him or get over-emotional, just plant the seed that will develop into him realizing he is thinking of you a lot too. Keep any conversations you have light-hearted and funny. Remind him of the times you have spent together when you have had fun together. This will help the memories of all the good parts of your relationship stay fresh in his mind.</p>
<p>Once you know <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/how-to-get-her-back-the-easy-way">how to get her ex back</a> fast, you will need to work on your relationship if you want it to last long-term.</p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1447" title="How to make your ex boyfriend want you back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/How-to-make-your-ex-boyfriend-want-you-back3-300x300.jpg" alt="How to make your ex boyfriend want you back" width="300" height="300" />Everything You Need to Know About How to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back</span></p>
<p>Coming to terms with the end of a relationship can be difficult, especially if the breakup was not your idea. You may be wondering what you did wrong or whether your ex boyfriend has another woman in his life. Feeling sorry for yourself will not get your ex-boyfriend back, so switch off the Love Anthems CD and put away the Haagen Daz if you want to know how to make your ex boyfriend want you back.</p>
<p><strong>Don’t Be Desperate</strong></p>
<p>Desperation is a big turn off, so do not give your ex boyfriend the satisfaction of seeing that you are desperate for a reconciliation. Play it cool and give him the impression you are coping well with the break up. If he calls you, do not answer it the first time and do not call him back. Always leave at least an hour before you reply to his text messages or emails. If he asks where you have been, tell him you have been busy; there is no need to elaborate. Hounding him with phone calls and texts and calling round to his home constantly will only serve to turn him off. Remember, acting desperate will only make him thankful he dumped you. Knowing how to make your ex boyfriend want you back without looking like a stalker is challenging, but it can be done.</p>
<p><strong>Enjoy Your Friends</strong></p>
<p>Take time away from your relationship worries and spend some much-needed time with the girls. Rather than bother yourself with how to make your ex boyfriend want you back all the time, forget him for a little while. You will find, like a watched kettle never boils, constantly thinking about your ex will not help your chances of getting him back. Instead, show him you are not moping about and letting your break-up get you down. Letting him see you are enjoying yourself may remind him of the fun-loving girl he fell in love with in the beginning. (Read about <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/how-to-win-him-back">how to win him back</a>).</p>
<p><strong>Make Changes</strong></p>
<p><strong><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1448" title="How to make your ex boyfriend want you back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/How-to-make-your-ex-boyfriend-want-you-back4-300x199.jpg" alt="How to make your ex boyfriend want you back" width="300" height="199" /></strong>While nobody should change who they are for another person, you should consider any areas of your life that you want to improve. Think about what you and your ex used to argue about the most. Was it because you were always working late? Did he constantly tell you how needy you were? If you want to know how to make your ex boyfriend want you back, you will have to seriously consider why your relationship went wrong in the place. Show him you can change for the better and you will find your self-confidence will improve too. A girl who is self-confident and happy is much more attractive to a man, than a girl who is feeling sorry for herself and always frowning.</p>
<p><strong>Remind Him of the Good Times</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1449" title="How to make your ex boyfriend want you back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/How-to-make-your-ex-boyfriend-want-you-back5-300x226.jpg" alt="How to make your ex boyfriend want you back" width="300" height="226" />Once you are confident about how to make an ex boyfriend want you back, make the effort to keep in touch with him. Send cards or messages on his birthday and try to keep up with what he is doing. When you do see him, casually remind him of a fun memory you share. He will need to be reminded that you did share good times together because the bad memories leading up to your break up will still be fresh in his mind. Most importantly, let him know that the time you did share together was the happiest time of your life. This will hopefully push him in to wondering what was so bad with the relationship that you had to split up.</p>
<p>You are unlikely to see instant results but if you are serious about reviving your relationship, you should commit to the long haul. Once the novelty of being single wears off, he may just start to realize he is missing you more than he realized.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[How to Get My Ex Back: Top Five Tips Mending a broken relationship can be one of the most emotionally and physically frustrating times of your life. Getting back with your ex will require timing, perseverance and a whole lot of patience. So if you have been planning for the longest time to get your [...]]]></description>
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<p>Mending a broken relationship can be one of the most emotionally and physically frustrating times of your life. Getting back with your ex will require timing, perseverance and a whole lot of patience. So if you have been planning for the longest time to get your ex back but with no idea on where to start, here are some effective tips that you can follow.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Give your ex ample time</span></strong></p>
<p>Try not to be too clingy or emotionally needy. This will drive her away even more. The break-up may have taken a toll on your ex as well so give her some time to erase out all that anger and pain before doing your moves. Resist that urge of calling her every chance you get. Instead, be very patient and learn to wait. The time will usually vary from one person to another. So do a little snooping. Ask your common friends if she is already doing fine or if she is still bitter about your break-up.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Show signs of interest</span></strong></p>
<p>When the time is right, you’ll need to show your partner that you intend to get back together. This will require perfect timing, so again, it is best that you snoop around before making your move. Call her up and ask her how she’s doing. If she returns the call, take that time to just talk and ask her how her day went. Try not to be too pushy.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Be willing to change</span></strong></p>
<p>Relationship problems usually stem up from indifferences or from plain and simple bad habits. If this is the case, then be willing to change. Recognize your fault and be ready to change for the better. If not, you’ll end up going back to the same problem over and over again. And remember, the opportunity of getting back together with your partner may only happen once so try your best to make it right this time.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1445" title="Get my ex back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Get-my-ex-back2-255x300.jpg" alt="" width="255" height="300" />Learn to say sorry</span></strong></p>
<p>Sometimes, it is as simple as sorry. But remember, your apology should be heartfelt. Back it up with action, and not just with mere words. One single heartfelt apology can mean more than a thousand ‘sorry’s’ that are not from the heart.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Use your history to your advantage</strong></span></p>
<p>Think back and remember the things that your ex used to love about you and relive that all over again. What made her fall so helplessly in love with you in the first place? Use all that information to your advantage.</p>
<p>Remember, relationships can be mended but it will take time, effort and a whole lot of patience. Timing is the key. So if your ex is really worth fighting for, then you’ll be more than happy to invest on all of these to get her back in your arms.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[How to Get a Girl Back: The Dos and Don’ts Getting a girl back is considered twice, even thrice as hard as when you first planned to woo her into your arms. This is mostly because this time, she already knows the person that you really are – both the good and the bad. This [...]]]></description>
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<p>Getting a girl back is considered twice, even thrice as hard as when you first planned to woo her into your arms. This is mostly because this time, she already knows the person that you really are – both the good and the bad. This time, she is already familiar with your each and every single move.</p>
<p>And finally, this time, she won’t get surprised easily. But then again, getting a girl back is not at all impossible to do. Want to know the secret? Read on and learn about the simple dos and don’ts on <a rel="nofollow" href="patchworkpals.com/how-to-get-a-girl-back">how to get a girl back</a> today.</p>
<p><strong>The Dos</strong></p>
<p>Give her time to forget about the pain. If it has been a bad break-up, give her time to forget about the pain first. If you come barging in at the wrong time, chances are, she’ll throw you out yet again. So be willing to wait. But be extra watchful. Timing is the key here. Making the first and the right move is probably the hardest thing as it can make or break everything. So make sure that you do it right.</p>
<p>Re-evaluate your behavior. Even before you start thinking of strategies on how to get a girl back, think what went wrong between the two of you in the first place. Was it all really you or was it her? Be honest about this as you possibly can. This may not be easy, yes, but getting to the root of your relationship problems first before deciding to give it another try will give you a better chance on your second run.</p>
<p>Make initiative. This should be the next step on how to get a girl back. After a break-up, giving her a few days to think is completely okay but a month or a year would be too long. Chances are, your girl may have completely moved on or worse, found someone else that she thinks is more worth of her time and attention. So make your move while you still have the chance. Do some investigating just to see how she’s doing. When the time is right, make that call or invite her out to a simple dinner. (Also see <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/how-to-get-her-back-the-easy-way">how to get her back</a>)</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1442" title="How to get a girl back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/How-to-get-a-girl-back4-300x287.jpg" alt="How to get a girl back" width="300" height="287" /><strong>The Don’ts</strong></p>
<p>Don’t be too needy. This is one of the worst things that you can do. Being too emotionally clingy will definitely drive her away even more. Try not to call her up every single chance you get. Never beg. Show her that you can stand on your own, too.</p>
<p>Don’t make her jealous. Making her jealous by going out with another girl will not work. It looks pretty effective in movies but doing this in real life will cause her even more pain. Bringing another person to the equation will complicate things even more. So show her how true you really are.</p>
<p>So there you have it, time-tested dos and don’ts on how to get a girl back. Timing is important but your perseverance will be the key. Remember, the entire process of mending a relationship may be hard but with the right girl, every ounce of effort is never wasted. Read about <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/how-to-get-my-ex-back">how to get my ex back</a> and <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/get-your-ex-boyfriend-back">get your ex boyfriend back</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tips on How to Get an Ex Girlfriend Back. The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence, in fact in many cases it is just a muddy field. If you are now regretting the hasty decision to end your relationship, all is not necessarily lost. Working to get an ex [...]]]></description>
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<p>The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence, in fact in many cases it is just a muddy field. If you are now regretting the hasty decision to end your relationship, all is not necessarily lost. Working to get an ex girlfriend back takes hard work, commitment and most importantly, a realization that you may not achieve results overnight. Depending on how bitter the break up was, your ex-girlfriend may be enjoying her new single status, meaning it may take that extra bit longer to convince her she cannot live without you. Thinking outside the box, showing you care and being patient are all required if you want to get an ex girlfriend back for good.</p>
<p><strong>Keep in Touch</strong></p>
<p>There is a fine line between keeping in touch so she does not forget you and harassing the girl, so you need to be especially careful you do this right. If you have her email address, send her the odd email asking how she is or just to let her know you are thinking of her. Do not overdo it; keep the emails short and stick to sending one a week. If you receive no response after sending two, you will need to try another tactic. If you have no email address, try sending her a text message instead. Make sure you ask her a question, just making a statement means she does not have to respond.</p>
<p><strong>Avoid the Mind Games</strong></p>
<p>The first rule when it comes to trying to get an ex girlfriend back is, no mind games. This includes the “Treat her mean, Keep her keen” game. If you start messing with her feelings you are likely to be burned, so avoid trying to act as if you do not care. While playing it cool is a good thing, if you are too cold she will get the impression you have moved on and are not interested. Do not be tempted to lie about a new girlfriend or brag about how many women are interested in you now you are single. This is a surefire way to turn her off, as well as give her the impression you never really cared about her.</p>
<p><strong>Remember Special Days</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1439" title="Get an ex girlfriend back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Get-an-ex-girlfriend-back2-300x225.jpg" alt="Get an ex girlfriend back" width="300" height="225" />Let her see how much she still means to you by remembering her birthday. You do not have to go over-the-top, just send her a card. When the day of your anniversary arrives, send her an email or a text telling her you are thinking about her. This lets her know that you have remembered the anniversary, without making you look obsessed.</p>
<p><strong>No Women</strong></p>
<p>If you really want to get an ex girlfriend back, then you will need to stay single. This means no secret trysts after a night out or a rebound girlfriend to make your ex-girlfriend jealous. If she sees you with another woman, she will make the natural assumption you are off the market. If she asks you why you do not have a new girlfriend, give her a hint. Tell her you are not on the market for a girlfriend, because you are still working through your feelings for her.</p>
<p>If you genuinely want to know <a href="http://patchworkpals.com">how to get your ex girlfriend back</a>, your effort alone may impress her enough to consider restarting your relationship. You can also try honesty; tell her how you feel and how much you really want a second chance.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is nothing worse than when the man you love tells you that the time has come to end the relationship. You feel as though the bottom of your world has dropped out and as if you have been struck really hard in the mid-section! Of course this is a normal reaction, especially if you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1436" title="How to get my boyfriend back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/How-to-get-my-boyfriend-back3-300x223.jpg" alt="How to get my boyfriend back" width="300" height="223" />There is nothing worse than when the man you love tells you that the time has come to end the relationship. You feel as though the bottom of your world has dropped out and as if you have been struck really hard in the mid-section! Of course this is a normal reaction, especially if you have been together for a while. If you are honest with yourself chances are the break-up is not really that much of a surprise.</p>
<p>There have probably been signs along the way that let you know that the end was in sight. You might have tried to ignore the signs and hoped for the best but then he tells you it is over and now you are looking for advice on how to get my boyfriend back.</p>
<p>You might not even really think it is possible but you would be wrong. It is possible to win him back but only if you make the right moves and avoid the wrong ones.</p>
<p>One of the best chances you have of figuring out the answer to your question: how to get my boyfriend back (or <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/get-her-back-getting-her-back-isnt-about-you">get her back</a>) is to realize the power of a sincere and heartfelt apology. An apology can work wonders when it is done properly. As we have already said, you probably saw a rift developing within the relationship and maybe you did nothing because you simply did not know what to do.</p>
<p>But now it has ended and you are even more lost. When you offer a sincere apology you need to understand your responsibility in the rift and then the break-up. Apologizing is not as easy as simply saying: “I’m sorry”. Very often the apology is followed with an explanation for what was said or done. In that case the apology is rendered useless because it has turned into an explanation. Think about it. I’m sorry…but I was delayed, angry, busy, etc. An apology should never be followed with “but”!</p>
<p>Getting your man back is not a process that happens quickly, nor are there a set of steps that one can follow that will answer the question of how to get my boyfriend back. Unfortunately the issue is a lot weightier than that. However, that being said, there are certain things that one should not do.</p>
<p>What are the mistakes that people make when a partner ends a relationship? The initial reaction is to either be angry or devastated. People either react with anger or they try to convince the other person that they will change and will do whatever they have to do in order to be the person that the other wants them to be.</p>
<p>In short they make unrealistic promises that they really cannot fulfill, such as promising that all the issues that the other person has raised are suddenly over and done with and will never come between them again. Usually this does not work and the relationship ends anyway. The trick is to remain calm, agree that the separation is actually the best thing, and then take it from there. Reacting out of strong emotion is not going to help you to figure out how to get my boyfriend back.</p>
<p>See also: <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-to-want-you-back">how to get your ex boyfriend to want you back</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>You might have thought that all you would need when you have recently broken up with your boyfriend is some ice cream and your friends but chances are you will discover that this just is not enough. No break up is ever easy and it is made even more difficult to deal with if you happen to still be in love with your ex-boyfriend. What can be worse than hearing the man that you love tell you that things are just not working and he wants to end the relationship?</p>
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<p>Chances are you are likely to feel devastated and convinced that there is no way to get back together again. But you must realize that just because he has told you it is over it does not automatically mean that it is. You can figure out how to win him back. In order to discover how to win him back you need to be sure that you are thinking and acting rationally.</p>
<p>It is perfectly normal to want to contact him when the break up has happened. You tell yourself that communication is important but when a break up has happened getting in touch with him is actually the wrong thing to do.</p>
<p>You need to realize that you both need time. Of course you already know that you want him back so the time is not for you to come to terms with the break up. Rather, it means that you are giving him the time and space that he needs in order to figure out how he really feels and also to start missing your presence in his life. Try not to contact him for at least two or three weeks after the break up.</p>
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<p>He needs to feel the void that has been left in his life and if you are constantly contacting him because all you can think about is <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/how-to-win-him-back">how to win him back</a>, you will actually be doing nothing more than driving him further away.</p>
<p>Many men end a relationship and immediately start another one. If you find out that he is seeing someone else you need to remain calm. This does not mean that he’s over you or that he’s moved on as though you were never part of his life. The relationship he is in is a rebound one and these seldom if ever last. In fact, you can use the relationship to your advantage.</p>
<p>You might not feel like wishing him well with his new relationship but doing so can really be rather effective. Let him see that you can make it without him and he will probably try to prove you wrong because most men want what they cannot have. You apparently losing interest in him could well spark his interest in you!</p>
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<p>Figuring out how to win him back might seem like an insurmountable problem. The choices you make after a break up, the things you do and say, are all relevant and can either help or hinder your chances of getting him back in your life. For boys <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/how-to-win-her-back-how-to-win-her-back-by-becoming-a-better-person">how to win her back</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Effective Ways to Get your Ex Back If you have recently gone through a break up you are probably feeling rather emotional and not a little vulnerable. You might be trying to find ways to get your ex back because you just cannot imagine life without him or her. But did you know that there [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p style="text-align: left;" align="center"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Effective Ways to Get your Ex Back</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1429" title="Ways to get your ex back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Ways-to-get-your-ex-back3-300x240.jpg" alt="Ways to get your ex back" width="300" height="240" /></strong></span>If you have recently gone through a break up you are probably feeling rather emotional and not a little vulnerable. You might be trying to find ways to get your ex back because you just cannot imagine life without him or her. But did you know that there are certain things that you can do and not do that will either help your chances of winning him or her back, or otherwise hinder your chances? There are mistakes that people make that can really ruin any chance of a reunion and knowing what they are can make winning him or her back a whole lot more likely.</p>
<p>Of course you are in pain when the relationship ends. Most of us have, at one point or another, been through this type of heartache. For some it can be one of the most difficult times of their lives. Would you like to know some effective <a href="http://patchworkpals.com/ways-to-get-your-ex-back">ways to get your ex back</a>? Take a look at the following tips:</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Realize that it does not have to be the end</strong></span></p>
<p>It is very important that you realize and understand that just because your ex ended the relationship it does not mean that all hope of reconciliation is lost. Almost all relationships can be saved if you use the right methods and avoid the common mistakes.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Acceptance is crucial</strong></span></p>
<p>Although you might be inclined to fight for the relationship this is actually the wrong thing to do. Accepting the break-up is very important if you hope to win him or her back again. It might be really difficult for you to tell him or her that you accept the break up when every part of you is screaming otherwise, but it is important that you do so. If the break up has already occurred and you did lose it a bit, do not despair.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1430" title="Ways to get your ex back" src="http://patchworkpals.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Ways-to-get-your-ex-back4-257x300.jpg" alt="Ways to get your ex back" width="257" height="300" />You can do some damage control. Write him or her a letter after a good few weeks have passed, tell them that you realize your behavior was inappropriate but that after having had time to think about it you have come to the conclusion that their decision to end the relationship was actually the best thing for you both. Let him or her know that although you would like to try again, you respect them enough to respect their decision.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Don’t harass him or her</strong></span></p>
<p>Emailing, texting, calling, etc. after a break up is always a bad idea. You do not want to turn into a stalker after all. That will not help you to find ways to win your ex back but will drive them even further away.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Don’t turn into the needy ex</strong></span></p>
<p>The last thing you want to do is turn into the desperate ex! Most relationships that end will either be rekindled or completely destroyed by the behavior that occurs in the weeks following the break up. Provided that you do your best to think calmly and rationally you can discover ways to get your ex back.</p>
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